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Avril*wannabe
10-03-2004, 02:25 PM
Right, well, I didn't really want to post this at all, but I really need to talk to someone about it really. Also, I don't want people to think i'm some kind of slut or something...
Anyway, after drinking a vast amount of alcohol, I was with this guy one thing lead to another and we ended up in the bathroom. No need for me to tell you what happened next! It was kind of like, 'There were limbs all over the place' as quoted by Summer, The O.C! Lmao.
Basically, it wasn't very sucessful, nevertheless -- it happened. What also happened, or didn't happen was that vital condom!
So, today (bearing in mind it's a Sunday -- buses don't run regularly, half the shops are closed...) my friend came with me to get the morning after pill.
It is unbelievable how hard it is to get that damn thing on a Sunday. I had to phone 'Doctors on call' and go see a doctor who gave me a perscription, which i had to take to Asda. And, when the buses aren't running, it's a damn long walk around everywhere :( .
So, when I went to see the doctor, he like explained everything to me and told me I should take one pill, then exactly 12hours later take another. So, I was like fine. Then, when I got the perscription, I was reading the instructions of how to take it and it said to take both of the tablets at the same time...
So, I was like, well which one do I follow? But, i went for the instructions, seen as they actually came with the tablets.
Do you think this was the best idea?

And now.. it's a waiting game to see if they pills have worked. I've got to do a pregnancy test in like 2weeks I think to see. Which sucks majorly, because i'm so scared. I haven't really thought about the whole thing until now and I'm really really scared :( . I know it's a bit gorey, but I should get my period in like 2weeks and if that doesn't come -- what I going to do?

If you're reading this and you ever thought about having sex and that a condom didn't mean anything, well please please please learn from me -- USE ONE! Because, it sucks alot if you don't :(

TelescopeEyes
10-03-2004, 03:02 PM
and see..this is why I don't have sex.

sorry about that Amy. Fingers crossed eh? be more carefull next time. I hope everything turns out ok.

Avril*wannabe
10-03-2004, 03:07 PM
Thanks Lisa :).

TelescopeEyes
10-03-2004, 03:16 PM
you're welcome. try not to stress over it too much. :) I'm sure it'll be fine.

PunkyMalone
10-04-2004, 01:54 PM
Don't blame the alcohol for that. I was pretty damn loaded on Friday and hooked up with a guy... but we cut it off before actual intercourse happened because we didn't have one.

Good times though.

But.... yeah.... good luck with that.

Heather Lovelace
10-04-2004, 02:27 PM
and see..this is why I don't have sex.

sorry about that Amy. Fingers crossed eh? be more carefull next time. I hope everything turns out ok.*trys to shut her mouth with her hand before bursting oot laughing* I mean... Yeah, right.. Your a very, very naughty girl, Aimz...

Avril*wannabe
10-05-2004, 04:38 AM
Yes, I understand I'm a very stupid girl. The funny thing is, you never think it'll happen to you, so when it does -- it's kind of surreal. Anyway... I can't be sure that this guy hasn't had unprotected sex before, so to top this whole situation off, I might have an STI! *Whoopie*.

gwen-rox
10-05-2004, 05:21 AM
Wow would that be a great day. Well i'm not about to sit here and give u a lecture or anything but yea, i really hope that things work out for the best and that you're not pregent, but yea next just be more careful eh.

De-Generate
10-06-2004, 01:25 PM
Yes, I understand I'm a very stupid girl. The funny thing is, you never think it'll happen to you, so when it does -- it's kind of surreal. Anyway... I can't be sure that this guy hasn't had unprotected sex before, so to top this whole situation off, I might have an STI! *Whoopie*.
It's all ifs and buts at the moment Amy, try not to think about pregnancy and STD's too much. You could be worrying yourself about nothing in the end. I think at the moment it's quite sensible not telling your parents, because you wouldn't want them get stressed would you lol. Although, if you do need to talk to someone then your parents might want to listen thats what they're there for. Hope everything works out and let us know how the test goes. :)

Snagg3r
10-07-2004, 06:36 AM
Whoa, don't go blaming this on the guy who didn't wear the condom, there are chick condoms ya know.

Da Boggsta
10-07-2004, 04:46 PM
Think to yourself how many times does thi actually happen and out of that number how many become preggers?? I think the stats are about 1 in 300 cases, which is still quite high but there is chance! The mornin after pill is a wonder drug, but dont take too many it fucks metabolism! I dont think you have anything to worry about babe, you got the pill in time but i would wait 3 weeks before the test to be sure 2 weeks is border line for detection! As for the STI first signs of these can be a water infection within 1 week of it happening, or if you see your pubes turn into an adventure play ground for little crettins! :P

Either way Ami you have my full support and number if you ever need it :) xoxox

Avril*wannabe
10-07-2004, 05:30 PM
Whoa, don't go blaming this on the guy who didn't wear the condom, there are chick condoms ya know.I didn't blame the guy.

Chris -- Thanks so much! I actually contemplated txting you about this, but i didn't want to bother you.

PunkyMalone
10-07-2004, 05:36 PM
Think to yourself how many times does thi actually happen and out of that number how many become preggers?? I think the stats are about 1 in 300 cases, which is still quite high but there is chance! The mornin after pill is a wonder drug, but dont take too many it fucks metabolism! I dont think you have anything to worry about babe, you got the pill in time but i would wait 3 weeks before the test to be sure 2 weeks is border line for detection! As for the STI first signs of these can be a water infection within 1 week of it happening, or if you see your pubes turn into an adventure play ground for little crettins! :P

Either way Ami you have my full support and number if you ever need it :) xoxox
Holy walking sex ed class!

Da Boggsta
10-07-2004, 05:46 PM
I didn't blame the guy.

Chris -- Thanks so much! I actually contemplated txting you about this, but i didn't want to bother you.

Anything and i mean anything you need to talk about i'll listen!

If you feel that i wouldnt be bothered about this then ur wrong, i care too much about you! Always will i be here for you :)

Avril*wannabe
10-08-2004, 02:16 AM
Chris!! You're too nice :D.

BlueStar
10-08-2004, 07:11 AM
Erm alcohol + boys = bad mix. You should have just one at a time. Anyways good luck with the test and everything.

Da Boggsta
10-08-2004, 02:44 PM
Chris!! You're too nice :D.

Nice is a hateful word :P but thanks :)

Death in a Bottle
10-08-2004, 05:31 PM
If you feel that i wouldnt be bothered about this then ur wrong
So didn't you just say that her telling you about this would bother you?

Da Boggsta
10-09-2004, 12:35 PM
stop being pedantic!

avrilrocks007
10-14-2004, 08:51 PM
awww dont stress about it, it's obvoiusly a big deal, but i bet you wont be pregnant, especially if you took the morning after pill!!!
for instance one of my best friends never used a condom w/her bf, and she slept with him seriously like 2 times a day for like 2 months and she luckily never was pregnant, and she nevre used birth control or anything..but i really really really hope everything works out, but hun try not to stress too much k? u know were all here if u need someone to talk to! :)

Avril*wannabe
10-15-2004, 07:57 PM
^^ Awww, thank you, that's so awesome of you!

Anyways, I'm not pregnant thankfully -- so all seems to be ok at the moment :). This mess seems to have sorted itself out!

De-Generate
10-16-2004, 02:41 PM
^ Yey Amy :) I'm happy for you. It's cool how some things just have a way of sorting themselves out. *hugs*

punkin_monkey
10-20-2004, 10:19 PM
Gee, and I thought the obvious reply would be...I dunno...don't have sex?
I'm such an idiot.

Don't even get me started on the morning after pill....eh.